Plus, I understand why people are curious. The response is generally always very thirsty! I don’t think I’ve ever dealt with jealousy from other gay men over it. In fact, if I had the option to go bigger, I would. Also, it’s not like I’m constantly rearranging it. But it’s fun to show it off in tight-fitting pants. I don’t wear tiny underwear because there’s just no point. I don’t have any problems sleeping or cycling. Is it annoying having such a big penis? No, not at all. It can be difficult finding condoms because of my girth, but I don’t often use them anyway, because I’m on PrEP. People also use Grindr to approach me to do porn. But it just seems degrading to both parties. It’s not even that I’m morally against it. I get a lot of offers from people wanting to pay to give me oral. I am fetishised for my dick, and I don’t really mind, but I don’t encourage it. It’s not even a conversation I’ve had before not with friends, or people I’ve slept with. Is it a problem in the community? It’s hard to answer, because I’m in benefit of it. But in my experience, tops are not common. I understand the concept of top privilege, and maybe there are parallels to make between that and size. I think a lot of guys probably feel that way – that anyone smaller than them constitutes ‘small’. For me, it’s normal to be hung.Įight inches seems average, and anything under eight seems small. When it comes to penis size, I have an odd perspective. And yes, I can give myself a blow job if I want to, but that’s not something I’m really into. I don’t really have problems when it comes to receiving oral. There are steps I take to maximise the chance of successful fucking, Lots of lube, and patience, for example. It doesn’t hurt my feelings, but it’s frustrating. And I’ve been turned down for anal by guys I was interested in before. But I avoid inexperience.īottoms generally very much so struggle to accommodate me. I’ve been asked to stop half way through sex. Or, they comment that they’re not used to my size and want to experience it. The most common question I get is always ‘How big is it?’ Then, when I answer, most people don’t believe me. I’m upfront about it, and what my preferences are. I’m a total top, and I of course make a clear reference to my dick on my Grindr profile (‘XXL’). Perhaps it’s my big balls, and the hormones. I prefer to stay single at the moment and enjoy sex – I hook up several times a week, whenever I need to. The girth’s 8 inches, and I have pretty big balls. My dick’s close to 10 inches long, and uncircumcised. I was 12 or 13 when I first realized I have an above average-sized dick. I’m just over 6 feet tall, and have US size 12 feet. I guess you could say I’m pretty big all over. I’m a 25-year-old gay man from Spain, living in London.